Lets say i agree, who's gonna give first. You transfer to me first and then my family will give money to your family in Nepal.

ny2 · Jan 7, 2016 6:12 AM

Hahahhahaha

Madan Dhakal · Jan 7, 2016 12:25 PM

@ny2: Let's say you agree!! which I don't think you would   but just in case if you did , this how it will work. I will deposit the check of 10 grand into your bank account on day 1, you will give money to my parents in Nepal on a same day or the day after. If you try to be smarta$$ then I will stop my payment and if I tried to be smarta$$, you can file the police report against me here in the U.S. or file a report against my parents in Nepal. I have done it couple times in the past and I have never had problem with any Nepalese in this context. I have never seen any Nepalese being dishonest in this matter. Last edited: 08-Jan-16 01:03 AM

Swastikbhai · Jan 7, 2016 10:55 PM

@MadanDhakal: Kina mero 10 grand dekhera daha lagyo ki kya ho, khubai haseko chau ta. FYI, Summer ma Ocean City ra Xmas ma gas station ma week ko 18 hours kaam garera banako paisa ho, choreko haina.

Swastikbhai · Jan 7, 2016 10:57 PM

10k transaction thru a stranger can create a lot of problem since one cannot simply trust a stranger. Even your scenario involves police. All i am saying is its better if you send that thru a friend or through money transfer in batces. Your scenarios is a win win scenario for u only since you can stop the transfer if you are a smart ass even after you family gets the money. What wilk hapoen with the police case, nothing. If you talk about trust, are you willing to tranfer first, let the transfer complete and only one will give that money to you family.

ny2 · Jan 8, 2016 6:34 AM

Y'all do know thats how internet fraud works right? I mail a check worth $xxx to you. you send your cash through wire or in person whatever might be the case after depositing the check. The check takes couple of days to clear. In between your cash is gone. After a couple of days, the check bounces. And you are going to file a police report saying some stranger on internet gave me 10 grand check and for me to give to cash. Good luck with that.

Oh_Gaathe · Jan 8, 2016 7:21 AM

Swastikbhai, Can you please PM me? For some reason Sajha is acting weird trying to send you message.

STUPIDA · Jan 8, 2016 9:17 PM

ny2: I totally understand what you're trying to say and I appreciate your suggestion. I understand it involves lots of risk to do transaction for that much of money and I know I am trying to be a cheapa$$ here by trying to save few hundred dollars. Tara k garne bro, dukha garera kamako paisa ho, etikai falna maya lagera. I've asked few friends but no one is ready to carry that much of cash while travelling. If nothing worked then I guess I will do moneygram or western union. To clear your confusion, it won't be win win situation for me because when I stop my payment, my bank will charge me certain about of money as well. I will make sure to know the person, talk with him/her, add to facebook if they agree and also they can come to my home in Ktm to do the transaction so that they can be assure that where my parents live and all. Trust is the main key but I know it's difficult in this situation when we deal with strangers.

Swastikbhai · Jan 8, 2016 10:37 PM

Oh-Gathe, have you ever heard a song from Ani Choying Dolma, "Fulko Akhama fulai sansar, kada ko aakha ma kadai sansar." I hope that's enough for you.

Swastikbhai · Jan 8, 2016 10:38 PM

stupida, I've PM'd you. Thanks.

Swastikbhai · Jan 8, 2016 10:39 PM