Sorry to say this but she might have something on the side.

funtush · Mar 11, 2015 2:56 PM

Sorry to say H2S, you were an appetizer. My advice: move on... although it's hard after all that talk and few meetings.... i understand totally... but her reply clearly says... nice talking to you, Bye ! and have a good life & wife !!

daum · Mar 11, 2015 3:07 PM

I agree with all the responses here. She is not into marriage and commitment. I am no expert but I have enough experience to know a thing or two about this incredibly astounding breed commonly known as 'Women'. Clearly, she is telling you she can't be faithful to you.

lamopuri · Mar 11, 2015 3:55 PM

Better communicate to her directly and make sure its all over. You don't want to leave the conversation open ended and have crazy ideas like "what if".  Its better to get hurt once and then move on rather than hanging with "what if" feelings. you mentioned that you guys are not local to each other and you guys have dated: Does that mean -  dated each other or dated with other person prior to the conversation ? From your side, you can also go and meet her personally if she has any interest on you and make it clear. Else, move on. You definitely learned something from this. ~GoodLuck

no_more_crush · Mar 11, 2015 3:58 PM

Thank you Guys! She even said that I was the only guy she seriously considered marrying and she doubts if she would feel the same about anybody else. Everything was going just fine until my family didn't approve of her, and I told her no matter what I will love her till the end of my life and will marry her. She said, considering everything, she seriously thinks that she can't work it out with anyone and she is not capable of love or marriage or anything. She also says many different things to avoid me. She also said she was in love with somebody else before and finds it difficult to forget him blah blah...all bogus.Should I talk to her again? No_more_crush, I also think the same. This was the only thing I was left to experience in my life. Now truly a "been there done that" man am now. केटा ले जहाज किन्नसक्ने र केटी बुझ्ने सामर्थ्य राख्नु उस्तै उस्तै हो जस्तो लाग्यो  Last edited: 11-Mar-15 04:29 PM

Hydrogen Sulphide · Mar 11, 2015 4:24 PM

Hydrogen bro, ke bhaa timi? Just say "nice talking to you" and move on. It might be hard initially, but you gotta move on as she doesn't have the 'wife-liness' you're looking for.

Haina ho Serey · Mar 11, 2015 5:01 PM

Talk to your parents if you feel like you really love her. They are the good adviser in such scenario. For me it sounds like she found another good one..

prem101 · Mar 11, 2015 8:00 PM

Hydrogen sulphide bro. The girl already told you she don't want to get married and it's not going to work...that' means it's all over ...don't waste your time ..you seem to be a guy who's serious about marriage and wanting to start your new life ...there are millions of girls who are like you ..meaning who really wants someone like you to be the life partner ...go for them you will find them easily ..!!! Good Luck.

FanTush · Mar 11, 2015 9:08 PM

She's in America and independent. She doesn't want your love wife bullshit. She wants sex but nothing more. Wham bam thank you mam.... That's the angle.

itroll · Mar 12, 2015 12:03 AM

H2S bro Keep us posted. If its all over, move on ( start with un-friending her from facebook/twitter etc) #GoodLuck

no_more_crush · Mar 12, 2015 10:51 AM