simple sweet girl or educated smart girl

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i have found a girl who is simple sweet and loyal in Nepal but she is not smart and educated. sometime i feel she can not be my life-partner as its 21st century and can not handle/struggle in America. At the same time i have seen so many people got divorced who are good themselves,educated smart successful in their life.I also think i should not disrespect her for whatever she is. Folks i need your suggestions!

newyork20085 · Sep 16, 2014 7:12 PM · 17,298 views

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I prefer simple and sweet loyal but at least some education. If she don't know how to read and write, hell no, if she is a village girl with no education don't accept her. Last edited: 16-Sep-14 08:26 PM

divorceguy · Sep 16, 2014 7:21 PM

Simple and sweet can invite man when you at work and smart girl can go to man's apt saying she is at work. Whom you pick ? I am not generalizing all girls though.

dindukhi · Sep 16, 2014 9:40 PM

haha good one dindukhi

divorceguy · Sep 16, 2014 10:37 PM

Mr k को simple and sweet चाहियो चुसेर बस्ने होर स्वीट हुनलाई , go for smart and you be smart too thats how your family will be smart

thukka · Sep 17, 2014 7:31 AM

Newyorker it seems like you are in a relationship with this simple sweet girl, but you are not sure about it since you do not feel she is modern enough to accompany you around your friends and other gatherings. Do you think she will embarass you? Relationships are always complicated. Do you want to go with the one at hand or you want to seek another new educated smart girl? Will you even find an educated smart girl who will fall in love with you? I am sorry I did not answer your question but this is one question you have to answer for yourself.

rethink · Sep 17, 2014 7:55 AM

Decide first what you want then act. Not all educated person are smart:  you can see some of them are acting like ........................... .  Last edited: 17-Sep-14 10:27 AM

magorkhe1 · Sep 17, 2014 9:03 AM

if i forget for a second she is not smart/educated and driven kind of person, she can the best life partner. But looking all my friends, today's modern situation, difficulties, struggles. she never came up with these situations. she has no experience of struggle/problems and sense of drive to become something or get educated. i really get confused while i am on the way to finalize the relationship with her. if it was Nepal it would not make big sense but in America its different story.

newyork20085 · Sep 17, 2014 11:34 AM

Just coz you are educated doesn't mean that you are smart. How do you know if she is not smart. Based on just some phone conversation, chats and skypes, you came to conclusion that she ain't smart?? That's not sth smart eh'?? I bet you call your grandfather or grandmother smart enough to raise your parents and hence you.

nayapidi · Sep 17, 2014 3:45 PM

whatever she is Ok if situation was in Nepal but in America, people should be smart to survive. if some one doesnot know ENTER AND EXIT sign in airport( for example). thats mess in 21st century.

newyork20085 · Sep 17, 2014 4:37 PM

Newyork20085, can you give me your exact date of birth (A.D) and her's. (You can message me for confidential matter). I will do some numerology test and will let you know what the numerology says about you and her future. Also, can she read basic English?

ujl · Sep 17, 2014 5:44 PM

thank you UJL for regard. i have feeling that people are not perfect which kind of pulling me towards her :)

newyork20085 · Sep 17, 2014 6:39 PM

ujl · Sep 17, 2014 7:20 PM

UJL that picture quote what i was missing.... thanks for sharing.... simplicity and humbleness rocks!!

newyork20085 · Sep 17, 2014 7:30 PM

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