Boyfriend issue not sure what to do

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Never thought I would try to get opinion from others about this but this issue has been bothering me a bit. I have caught my bf quickly closing computer browser when i get into room so I got curious and checked history and saw that he had been browsing porn. It is unsettling to know this and I don't know if I should have a talk with him or not.

kalpu · Jul 1, 2014 8:38 AM · 41,784 views

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I cannot believe that you would bring something out like that in public baby.. R you kidding me? It was between you, me and the PC.

Duderino · Jul 2, 2014 11:43 AM

I have very conservative background and this is not something I prefer to watch and I find it disturbing to see bf watching it. Maybe it is a common thing, but I only started noticing recently. Still haven't made up mind whether to confront him about it or not. Thank you for replying everyone.

kalpu · Jul 2, 2014 12:06 PM

Certainly sounds like pebbles in the shoes. It must be annoying you a lot. Kalpu, I have little different observation of your situation though. May be it's not the porn he watches, may be it's your standard. You are 'very conservative' enough that you call yourself so, but you are modern enough (Nepali) that you are living with him and having physical intimacy before marrying him. I think you should decide yourself whether you be conformist or open ...enough to, like other posters are saying, enjoy a light serving of porn once in a while. It's up to you. But whatever you do, be happy. (Piece of advice: Call yourself lucky that you don't have relation problem that others have out there.)

IDK2013 · Jul 2, 2014 12:39 PM

I don't blame your poor boyfriend since you belong to a conservative family. If you want to continue the conservative values of your family, you should not make any bf. Conservative value = no bf/gf. Conservative value = Arrange marriage. Conservative value= BS.

lopchandai · Jul 2, 2014 1:19 PM

Yes, I'm sure, most of our dads watch porn here who have access to computers no matter how ideal and noble they sound in ceremonies and gatherings :)

bittertruth · Jul 2, 2014 1:29 PM

उमेरले उकालो लागि सके पछि साररिका रुपमा भन्दा पनि मानसिक रुपमा रासलिला को चाहना बढ्ने हुँदा हाल उपलब्ध श्रोत र साधनले एस्तो मानसिक तृष्णा मेट्न सहयोग पुर्याएको कुरामा दुइमत नहोला !

Magorkhe1 · Jul 2, 2014 2:06 PM

May be you should've thought about your conservative side before looking for a guy. Instead of looking for a normal guy, you should've looked for a dork with a chastity belt 'round his DONG! I don't think conservatives, especially "Nepali Conservatives" go seeking for love, they just wait for their parents to find them a dumb-ass to marry. So, long story short, to hell with your conservatives, either let him wank off to some porn or you take the "matter" in your own hands and start riding/blowing it!!! :D

compositionbook · Jul 2, 2014 2:16 PM

get back at him.

nayapidi · Jul 2, 2014 2:30 PM

This was few years back. Me and my nepali gf used to live together and we used to watch porn on computer while having sex....we lived for a year then she started cheating on me so i dumped her from apt. I remember having sex with her one night but found out she had already slept with someone same afternoon. GrOSS I also had a lesbian girlfriend for a year (she was girl within girl if you know what i mean), she was a sex freak. she loved anal sex! she used to shop around for lotions and what not. oh and She was white. then There was this girl who i liked as friend but she wanted as BF, we also had sex but then one day she texted me saying she just had "DP"...I almost puked and never slept with her again... I do know above mentioned stories are not 100% relevant (fun to read) but KEY here is, being in a relationship is all about trust and being open to each other. If one is less then other, then we got situation. And SEX is extremely important part of life, God has given us body, make full use of it! i mean of course dont go OX style or ....

urban khasi · Jul 2, 2014 2:41 PM

good lord honey its a porn not a sex chat ;)

bjkingofhill · Aug 30, 2014 9:16 AM

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