Nepalifan, arkai sanga baccha banau, teslai Child Support handeu.. Don't divorce, jindagi bhar timlai paisa tirdai marcha tyo.

bittertruth · Jun 20, 2014 10:59 PM

Just spare that poor guy and move on! You will not be happier unless you completely forgive him (and forget him). After all you are also to be blamed on this since you completely failed to know him before taking such a big decision of your life. You had green card and that idiot did not have paper and you should have at least gave a thought on his ulterior motives or tried to find them. May be its a chance for another guy to make his paper and hopefully a true love for you. If you do this that guy will repent someday. It is in his blood, gene etc to use people, and inevitably, these types of people will be caught up on their own Karma. Examples: gyanendra, paras, chiranjibi wagle, govinda raj joshi, jp gupta, mao baadi khaobaadi and many others ..:)

Hydrogen Sulphide · Jun 20, 2014 11:52 PM

Thank you all for your support and suggestions. One more question plz... my so called spouse, is now saying he will stop that relationship (I know, they are still in touch) and doesn't want to have divorce with me cause he love me a lot. Its sad but true I also love him, but have question in my mind that, is he fooling me again,,? Should I hear my heart or my brain? Should I give him one chance or just finish it now? When I see his face I just want to forget and forgive everything but I am not sure about his intention. Please guys, need your suggestion. Thank you

Nepalifan · Jun 21, 2014 11:13 PM

What a pathetic girl. I'm a guy and I know how a guy behaves. I'm sure he's after a green card and as soon as he gets it (or may be 2 years after getting it coz I think you have to stay together for 2 years after getting gc fro ur spouse), he'll kick you out from his life. If a guy cheats once, he'll cheat again. My grand mom used to say "aaimai ko buddhi chakaa" and this time too I feel she's going to be right. LOL.

shere · Jun 21, 2014 11:28 PM

'Love is blind' thats what am seeing here. Life is a role-playing game, it's depends on how you make choices in your life, good or bad it's all in your hand. Best of luck. whoever you are Lady.

bittertruth · Jun 21, 2014 11:51 PM

He will love you until he has to wait for his citizenship, that's what I see as per things you're explaining here in Sajha. Listen to your brain, heart can fail anytime.

Hydrogen Sulphide · Jun 22, 2014 1:04 AM

Take your time. !!! As you said you love him so be strong and keep the relationship. Find out the truth. If he is Nepali too then talk to his family too. My point is don't be weak. Stay strong and make it happen the way you want.

Nepaliscientist · Jun 22, 2014 10:17 PM

Thanks ...Shere, Hydrogen Sulphide and Nepali scientist.. Yeah I am taking sometime before making decision..Appreciate a lot.. Thanks

Nepalifan · Jun 22, 2014 11:36 PM

http://www.courts.ca.gov/1247.... You might need to read this .... You can get some idea.. ... You found about him just a few month of marriage ...To be honest, you should move on and let him go because like most of us Are saying he might be just using you for a residency... Everything happens for a reason and it ll happen for a good. That is good you still have time to stop him from doing wrong things ... Make him learn his lesson Best of luck and stay strong... SN

Supernote · Jul 24, 2014 7:22 PM

One of the Gentleman in Teaching profession's list : married to a Nepali girl from New England, as he got Green Card started giving hard time and compel her to divorce. Then he married to his girlfriend from Nepal. Once you see a problem and do not think it will last : get rid of it before getting too late. You should not worry about his status or anything. Be happy.

magorkhe1 · Jul 25, 2014 12:48 PM

Thank u so much for the suggestions....

Nepalifan · Aug 10, 2014 5:23 PM