Married Man 38 yrs old

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Any Nepali in Raleigh, Cary Area who likes great outdoor activities? I am a married Man with 2 children and only 1 wife :D and no friend(s) that share the value that I do. I am just looking for someone around my age to hang out with. Not really looking for bar or city life hangout. I am more into hunting, Fishing, wood working, car works. I am a rural type person so, I definitely don't like any city type hangouts. Let me know if you are into similar interest. Thanks

lightcz · Apr 23, 2014 5:09 PM · 20,125 views

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"I am a married Man with 2 children and only 1 wife ...  I am more into hunting ...."

no_more_crush · Apr 23, 2014 5:23 PM

Please contact: vice president D.Chenney.

MaGorkhe1 · Apr 24, 2014 9:28 AM

"I am a married Man with 2 children and only 1 wife ...  I am more into hunting ...." haha, it is funny when you do selective reading :) Last edited: 24-Apr-14 10:41 AM

lightcz · Apr 24, 2014 10:41 AM

"Please contact: vice president D.Chenney. " He ain't vice president for a while neither he lives in surrounding Area. Thanks for your suggestion though.

lightcz · Apr 24, 2014 10:42 AM

if youre rural and country kinds person maybe post on some "raato ghati" forum???? you got it going on with the first step by moving to Carolina...must be enjoying company of those "raato ghati"

kaji sahab · Apr 24, 2014 12:30 PM

You are about to need help.

bittertruth · Apr 24, 2014 4:41 PM

okay, help me out here. Why r u people so offensive? Someone earlier posted some racist comment and I had to delete it off. Don't you know how to appreciate things instead of giving negative criticism?

Lightcz · Apr 24, 2014 5:20 PM

the deleted comment was mine. first, look at the subject line you posted and then we will talk about other things....married man 38 yrs old.... your subject line is so appropriate for Chris Hansen's "to catch a predator"

kaji sahab · Apr 25, 2014 10:14 AM

People cheer up. Really! This guys is being very upfront. Married 38..The way I read it is that he is not looking for any 'encounters'..he is a mature guys not looking for party buddy (he spells that out btw). So people with that age range or comfortable with that age range should contact him. Yea...sentences could be sequenced differently...title could have been different. But is that what our intelligence level that we cannot read between the lines? I am not close by, but if I were, I would certainly hit him up. He is a sincere guy.

Altijdgoede · Apr 25, 2014 10:23 AM

I am a married Man with 2 children and only 1 wife.. This line made me smile. However, people are over reacting on this !

ujl · Apr 25, 2014 10:38 AM

Light, I think you can attend ANA convention or similar gathering and make some friends. Other than that looking for friends online like this?? You are surely to be ridiculed. I try my best to ignore Nepalese as far as possible. They begin talk like 'kati kamaunu huncha? k kaam? kun gaadi? ghar bhada kati? and then they don't stop flaunting 'mero mama ko, mero kaka ko thulo manchey yaha, waha.. ma mero kaam ma boss ko right hand, blah blah blah..' .. I'm not here to hear this crap. One thing I don't understand why are you trying to find someone when your life partner is here with you, and your kids. You should be happy that you are here with your familey instead of feeling lonely. To socialize, you can go to locally organized events and try to find values to share with them, instead of trying to find someone who shares your value.

bittertruth · Apr 25, 2014 10:44 AM

Like bittertruth said, try to find local Nepalese community in Raleigh, and go to the events and meet new Nepalese there. Also, change your mental attitude! Don't limit yourself saying "I need Nepalese." Go out and meet people from every corner !

ujl · Apr 25, 2014 10:51 AM

BT, I cannot stop laughing as I read your second paragraph. This is so true.

Altijdgoede · Apr 25, 2014 12:13 PM

को , का बाट , कसरी र किन अमेरिका छिर्यो जस्ता कुरा सँग आबद्द हुने कुरा हुन अनी तेही अनुसार उनिहरुको कुरा गराइ सुन्नु हुने छ | छोरी मान्छेको उमेर अनी छोरामान्छेको आम्दानी नसोधनु भन्ने उखान नसुनेका , सुने पनि नबुझेका वा बुझ पचाएकाहरु एस बर्गमा पर्नु हुन्छ | सबैलाई एउटै तुलामा राख्नु ठीक नहोला !

MaGorkhe1 · Apr 26, 2014 7:09 PM

@BitterTruth, Thanks for your input, I really do appreciate it. If anyone find it offensive with my topic or "only 1 wife", I want to apologize. I am a man with few humor bones. I like to play jokes here and there. "I try my best to ignore Nepalese as far as possible. They begin talk like 'kati kamaunu huncha? k kaam? kun gaadi? ghar bhada kati? and then they don't stop flaunting 'mero mama ko, mero kaka ko thulo manchey yaha, waha.. ma mero kaam ma boss ko right hand, blah blah blah..' .. I'm not here to hear this crap. One thing I don't understand why are you trying to find someone when your life partner is here with you, and your kids. You should be happy that you are here with your familey instead of feeling lonely. To socialize, you can go to locally organized events and try to find values to share with them, instead of trying to find someone who shares your value. " ^ This. I lived by this for a long time. About 16 yrs to be exact. I have few friends from here but At the end, I feel like I want 1 or 2 Nepalese friend(s), may be!!. I might have made mistake again for the same reason I stayed away from other Nepalese, thought I could take a chance. As I said, married man with children, hardly have time to do anything else. So, I have to fully utilize few hours that I get. Hence, looking for someone with similar interest to hang out with that speaks Nepali. Yes, I go and do a lot of family things. But, my children are not old enough to get into hunting. Trust me, I'll teach them everything that I know when they are ready. Anyway, thanks all and good luck to me :)

lightcz · Apr 27, 2014 7:18 PM

सबै को कमेन्ट पढें, काजी साहब को कमेन्ट पढें अनि कन्सीरी तातेर आयो | कस्तो मु* दिमाग हो ? गोबर भरिएको हो कि साँचीकै दिमाग हो ? "married man 38 years old " भन्दा तेरो दिमागले कसरी क्रिस ह्यान्सन को क्याच अ प्रिदेटरको जस्तो सोच्यो ? There is no fu*king correlation between what you are commenting and the title. ३८ वर्ष को बिहे भाको मान्छे हुँदैन? ३८ बर्षको बुढो मान्छे ले तन्नेरी केटि खोज्दै भनेर कतै केहि लेखेको देखिस ? गोरु | LightCZ bro, you go. I hope you find nepali community and have fun hunting and fishing and whatever you like doing.

Fuel Tank · Apr 27, 2014 9:39 PM

Light thanks for showing me glimpse of my future. Learned something today.

bittertruth · Apr 27, 2014 11:38 PM

There's an abundance of people in their last 20s and 30s in the region. I'd try meeting up with them in the soccer field and then go from there.

Drogo · Apr 28, 2014 8:16 PM

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