remembah, if you are single, someone is already fcking your future wife, if you are married, someone may/may not fck ur wife in the future,(well the title of this post proved this 2nd statement of mine already wrong) so, if we carry ujl's way of viewing things, acceptance, .. any trauma will not be that bad at all. rather it'd be a soul interaction than physical, don't be a slave to your 5 senses, it causes problems, whole lot of ego and mental problems. if you are basing your comments on some of our elderly couple who had lived wonderful life of togetherness, well.. it's good.. we must appreciate their dedication.. we also must be open to new ideas where I see nothing wrong rather than ridicule.

bittertruth · Feb 19, 2014 11:23 PM

Every rose has its throne every cowboys has its sad sad song

intelligentguy · Feb 20, 2014 8:54 AM

While all this discussion is happening, the OP appears very quiet. No further portrayal of the health of their current relations, their history of incidents..no nothing. Is it just a imagined scenario? The thread certainly did fool our bichara sojoketo. :):) That's about it. But it's good to engage ourselves in these discussions, be it hypothetical. What are the positions of husband and wive in a relation! How much of respect for each other there exists! If somehow, they grow apart do they pursue their paths respectfully without demeaning each other! Or can act civil, still be friends while respecting the difference! I think this is what this thread offers us to ponder upon.

IDK2013 · Feb 20, 2014 10:04 AM

@bittertruth don't know whom you're referring but the sentence sounds vulgar and bit abusive to woman race.. 'if you are single, someone is already f... your future wife' isn't it humiliation of a woman? and that applies to your sister and wife too? so let's have some respect for a lady who is mother..sister..wife and daughter.. No f work, no abusive word for a woman unless it's the woman who prefer adultery over husband love and respect. @ujl yogi opinion towards is 'it's just taking shower'. If you prefer the same, good luck

sojoketo · Feb 20, 2014 10:23 AM

@IDK2013 You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time. - Abraham Lincoln @IDK2013, if you think I have been fooled, I am just smiling like a YOGI. As a whole, I enjoyed this conversation though it is against my opinion and eventually I have been staged as a fool. यो युग मा सिधा साधा असल सरल भलाद मी सोझा लाई धुर्त बाठा हरुले मुर्खको संज्ञा त दिन छन्. :)

sojoketo · Feb 20, 2014 10:39 AM

sojoketo is a hypocrite. He uses words like "bull shit," "Yogi Shit" and he even said this: "based on your explanation, i come to this understanding that your mother has always been, your wife still is and your daughter forever will be taking a shower wherever they want." And this guy is talking about "humiliation" of women. It's like a meat-eater is talking about animal rights ! Quite an irony here !

ujl · Feb 20, 2014 12:03 PM

haha!! @ujl, bullshit and yogi shit, that's just the term to match the context not using as vulgarity and the other sentence was in response in defense of moral character of woman(being respectful to woman) as you mentioned that for yogis having sex is like taking shower and married woman(wife) should have a freedom to have shower with anyone she likes. that was offending to woman character. no honest/decent wife will agreed your saying, neither any husband. relations of husband and wife(life partner) is not only physically bound..else it wouldn't have referred as soul mate. having shower with anyone is crossing the boundary for both husband and wife..even for yogis like you.. :) still, @ujl, my sincere apology to mother, wife, sister and daughter if any of my sentences has exceeded the boundary line. even my sincere apology to you if you feel like i am pointing to your mother,wife and daughter.. .

sojoketo · Feb 20, 2014 12:32 PM