हरि शरदम !!! नारायण नारायण !!

langoor · Jan 13, 2014 8:00 PM

Idea is NOT bad.  But in reality, this process can take years. Remember, we are human. We have emotions. Our behavior and emotions can change with Time and, with our Surroundings. Above all, woman is involved in this case.  1.After their arrival in US, You all three have to live under one roof. Three is a crowd.  2. Legally, your wife will be calling your friend, "shreeman" in front of you, God knows how long would that be. What would happen is she feels comfortable calling your friend "shreeman"? 3. Somehow she gets preg ( don't worry, it yours) but what would you do on Child's Birth Certificate, Father's name. You can't put yours. She is legally married to your friend.  And there are many more social factors directly involve with emotions. Lawyers are helpless in this kind of events.    

Sexy in Sari · Jan 14, 2014 12:01 AM

Wow !! WTF.. INS take notice. This is a prety good reflection of Nepali society. Knowing the fact that it is wrong yet still our Bhedas are still supporting this MORON.

BathroomCoffee · Jan 14, 2014 11:14 AM

Remember, marriage is not a joke. It will leave a deep imprint in your heart.

lopchandai · Jan 14, 2014 2:18 PM

@sexyinsari sometimes people get separated and have someone else's babies without getting legal divorce. I don't think thats an issue.

goddamn · Jan 14, 2014 9:01 PM

And also i don't know if she has to call shreeman infront of anyone other than at antarwarta. I am not encouraging or discouraging any one but those two are not simply an issue. And c'mon get swayambar bibah rey, its easier to go to someone else's bihe get dressed up and take some snap.

goddamn · Jan 14, 2014 9:05 PM

@ goddamn, the question was answered based on the case scenario. NOT in a general sense. DV winner man is sponsoring a woman base on marriage. Process will take 3-4 years. As you said if they get separated, do you think green card process will continue? Or at the time of interview, if a woman has a child from a another man, but she is still married to her husband, do you think immigration officer will close his eyes and approves the case. This is the case scenario. OMG!!!! I don't even know why I am here. Bunch of kids!!!!

Sexy In Sari · Jan 14, 2014 11:06 PM

@sexy I think OP is here and the gf is in Nepal, so don't worry about baby. And about 3/4 yrs if you are not talking about general, for visa current date for spouse is not that long. If the gf gets visa then she will have her own green card upon arrival, so only problem is how to null the previous marraige. I am not encouragin OP or anything but the suggetions does not make any sense, so just playing the devil's advocate. And thanks for talking to this kid. Cheers :)

goddamn · Jan 14, 2014 11:45 PM