While as an unmarried guy, I'm no expert in this subject matter, I reckon your wife most probably wonders the same. I mean, you're most probably out of shape and don't have good stamina, and as a typical married couple, your sex-life probably isn't that enjoyable anymore.  Like someone aforementioned, you've gotta think about it from your wife's perspective, too. How'd you feel if she was thinking about cheating on you w/ a co-worker or her ex or some random dude off the internet? Hell, a simple wink will most definitely suffice a guy to strip and do funny things for a girl.  But again, since I'm no expert on this and don't have any experience, I'd highly suggest you to try to mix it up a bit (roleplay, BDSM and suck?). Don't f**king cheat on her, though. It sucks big time and will destroy both your lives. While your poor wife is most probably busy fending off interests and advances of perverts, I think it's highly unfair for her sake that you'd consider/ponder upon having sex with someone else.  So, please go discuss this with your wife and see if you two can solve this between yourself or see a sex therapy.  Good luck!  Last edited: 20-Dec-13 02:27 AM Last edited: 20-Dec-13 10:59 AM

riddle · Dec 20, 2013 2:26 AM

People always like to say what if your wife does the same thing? Well my answer to that is I don't care as long as I don't know about it and I don't want her to know if I do something on the side. I am not saying I want to have an affair and tell her about it. So why would I want to know if she does it or not? That is not the question here.

Ottam · Dec 20, 2013 9:53 AM

So Ottam ji , it looks like you are going ahead with "dont tell dont ask " policy .... go ahead dude... cheat on your wife but do keep in mind that what you sow is what you reap..... Oh ! and do come back and start a thread in sajha asking "my friend cheated on his wife now he thinks his wife found out , what should he do ? "  But again what do I know... - Thaha ChaEna 

ThahaChaena · Dec 20, 2013 10:44 AM

Whatever the situationYou're a part of the situation You'll need to handle the situation

Power_Ranger · Dec 20, 2013 10:53 AM

The situations:You cheat. You don't know your spouse cheats Your spouse cheats. You don't know about it Your spouse cheats. You know about it Your spouse does not cheat but you suspect s/he is cheating Nobody cheat but both suspect each other is cheating Etc

Power_Ranger · Dec 20, 2013 10:59 AM

you've a case of male menopause, time to take some pills  or join some internet groupies sex .. 

bittertruth · Dec 20, 2013 12:25 PM