July 22, 2013 This message is just to warn the girls and their parents who are applying or participating in Miss Nepal USA 2013, that this is just a scam and they just want your money ! Re: Complains and concerns regarding Miss Nepal US(A) 2012 On the behalf of the participants, their family and the event choreographer Mrs. Sarah Gurung Tetsuka, of Miss Nepal US(A) 2012, this letter kindly invites your attention to the misconduct and the false advertisement of the Miss Nepal US(A) event in 2012. The event was poorly and unfairly executed which also includes threatening the health of the participants due to improper housing conditions, failure of accommodation of food on time and lack of immediate medical direction when needed. Miss Nepal US(A) was not conducted as advertised to us contestants. The first false advertisement started off with the number of finalists they allowed to participate in the program. The organizers had claimed that they would only have 20 finalists; however they ended up the event with 28 finalists in order to gain the additional $8000 from the eight extra finalists. They also made a false announcement claiming to have more than 100 applicants to get the media attention but they only had 28 applicants. To our shock, despite Mr. Amit Shah (The CEO) and other organizers being aware of the fact that one of the applicants was married in Nepal, still choose to include her as one of the finalist which is absolutely against their own requirement clearly reflects the lack of integrity of the organization. Additionally, the whole training schedules were diverted to go around places in order to advertise for the organizer sponsors instead of providing the training that were promised during the application. . The participants’ were sometimes fed at a gas station and the hotel that the participants had to stay in had bed bugs.One of the contestants had to participate in the finale with a swollen face due to lack of treatment on time. Similar case also occurred to another finalist, when the second day of training, the contestants had to get their blood drawn for the life insurance policy which in fact was unnecessary for all the participants to go through as the insurance was only for the winners one of the contestant has a swollen and bruised antecubital space which wasn’t addressed by the organizers until after a week. Despite these outlined issues, each contestant considered the organizers’ everyday apologies and forgave in hopes of a grand finale as promised even when some of these issues were directly affecting participants well being. Unfortunately, the Grand finale of Miss Nepal US(A) 2012 turned out to be an incomplete, poor and disastrous event to the participants as well as the audiences. However, the audacity of the organizers to advertise the event as a success highlighted the organizers lack of accountability and their intention to deceive future participants through false advertisement, which reinforces the fact that the whole pageant is nothing but a scam. The finale was an incomplete event, which was executed poorly and unfairly. The show started more than 2 hours late and ended abruptly without completing the rounds that the participants were trained to be judged from. After the first round (cultural round), the organizers decided to change the whole time schedule for the show due to the lateness of the program. Due to this, all the work that went into practicing and perfecting the choreography was put in vain as all the rounds were cut shorter or canceled as mentioned earlier. Also due to the cancelation of certain choreographies, many of the items which were required purchase by the contestants were not put to use. But this was not the end of mismanagement; one after the other the program took a new toll. As witnessed by the event choreographer, Sarah Gurung, two members of the organizing committee, Mr Sarad Yuvraj Singh and Sailesh Shresta had taken the score sheets and manipulated it with new tallied numbers and made up a Top ten list without even adding up the scores given by the judges present. At the same time, even though the CEO of Miss Nepal, Mr Amit Shah was aware of this, he was not concerned about the actions of the two member of the organizing committee, instead he was more concerned about finishing the show on time due to the lateness of the show. And after the top ten finalists were asked individual questions, the final winners were announced based off of 10 different individualized questions and answers. How was it even possible to choose the top 3 based on 10 different questions? Moreover, on the website it clearly states that “The winner for this beauty pageant will be chosen based on their personality, overall attitude, public speaking skills, talent and their ability to form intellectual opinions on issues of national and international concern ask by jury”. Now the main issue was that the judges were called upon the stage within minutes after the top ten questions were asked to award the winners. This raises a huge question on the authenticity of the results as it is quite impossible to do the calculations for 10 different contestants from 10 different judges in such a short period of time. They did not make this transparent at all as the score sheet was just being passed around from the judges to the organizers not in front of the audience like it should have been but behind the curtain and the winners were announced promptly. Apart from these, there were several audiences who spent $100 dollars for their VIP ticket, which was promised to include a red carpet entrance, a meal, and on site voting for their favorite contestant but none of those actually happened. This whole event was indeed a big scam. After the event when the participants tried contacting the CEO Mr. Amit Shah asking for clarifications, he just said how he believes that some team members took advantage of the situation and that he thinks that the mistake was in judges’ selection as some of the judges had no clue. It is even worse that instead of accepting his mistakes he was blaming such respected personalities. The Participants always respected the team members like their own family but it is disgusting to find out that one of the organizers Sailesh Shrestha whom they treated like a brother had to be taken out of one of the contestants room drunk when she complained to the choreographer. Apart from that, he called several participants and choreographer Sarah Gurung many times in the middle of the night and when he was being ignored he started calling from private numbers. During the night before the finale, a party was organized for the contestants and the staff. Even though the organizers were well aware of the underage participants, alcoholic beverages were being served. When the event choreographer, Sarah Gurung, requested alcohol to be excluded, the event manager Sarad yuvraj Singh and Sailesh Sherestha, disputed and instead replied by saying, “we need to have alcohol and dance and put up pictures on social media to show how fun and exciting it is to be part of Miss Nepal US(A).” In other words, the party was held in order to falsely advertise the organization, even if it meant to let the underage contestants drink without parental consent. Miss Nepal US(A) claimed to serve as a platform for youths to promote the richness of Nepali culture and reward the hidden talents. But in contrary, they used us a medium to put on a show and make money. They cared less about the effort and dedication we put into it. After hearing all that, we are hopeful that you have come to understand our situation. Even after all this it is a shame that the same organizing committee is yet doing another year of Miss Nepal US(A) with even more false advertisement and enticing offers and prizes. Knowing all this, our dignity and pride doesn’t allow us to let this happen again and let another single fellow Nepali female go through the same road of distrust and misery that we did. Once again, we are not against Miss Nepal US(A) or the previous winners, we do believe that it can work as a great platform to uplift Nepali culture and encourage youths if organized by the right team but we absolutely cannot trust the same organizing team that includes members like Sailesh Shrestha and Sarad Yuvraj Singh. Please boycott this event to prevent these unfortunate events and stop the ill witted people from doing the same thing and exploiting more Nepali women. We would heartily like to thank you for your patience and lending us your ears and time all along. We are extremely hopeful that you would help us in this matter. Also, it has come to our knowledge that they were begging some of the girls to just participate for free because they were desperately in need of participants. And some of the contestants even received calls from the organizers saying if we can get some girls to participate they will at least get a title for sure ! Even after knowing all this if you still would like to participate or send your daughters we can't really do anything. Last edited: 22-Jul-13 09:49 PM
Antimissnepalusa · Jul 22, 2013 7:48 PM · 52,284 views
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riddle · Jul 23, 2013 12:16 AM
forgotpassword, it's in the process of being digested, wait sometime, this entire thread will turn into crap. नानि हरु के तातो न छारो कुरामा खैला बैला गर्छौ, बेकार छ यी भाड भैलो, अबको दस वर्षमा तिम्रो अनुहार चौरिने छ | खुरु-खुरु काम गर , दोष दिने र खुट्टा तान्ने काम त आखिरमा हाम्रो जन्मजात खुबी हो | आफ्नो काम भए, आफु खुसि होइन भने सब दोषी, तेतिले नपुगे आरोप-प्रत्यारोप | लौ म यहाँ तमाशा हेर्दै बस्छु :) Last edited: 23-Jul-13 10:44 AM
bittertruth · Jul 23, 2013 10:39 AM
Nepali haru lai nai chahine racha duniya nautanki events. (Miss Nepal America, Miss Nepal Australia, Miss Nepal London, etc). I don't see people of other nationality organizing their own beauty pageant in other countries (maybe I dont know). But those who participated, did you really think this whole event was worth your time and money? That being said, "Kukur ko puchhar kaile sidha hudaina" vane jastai...I doubt this will stop them from organizing this BS event again. Texas ra East coast bahek..No one really gives a sh*t who Miss Nepal America is.
Phantom-25 · Jul 23, 2013 1:35 PM
I am gonna go ahead and add one more stupid sajha user to my Stupid List: AntiMissNepalUsa, for backing out of the statement made, without any explanation. Thank You. So far in this thread: Simplegirl Khairey Antimissnepalusa
Mister · Jul 24, 2013 7:22 AM
@mister, How much fine do I have to pay to be out of your list. Su(ker..
Khairey · Jul 24, 2013 7:51 AM
Nepalkochoraa · Jul 24, 2013 9:03 AM
I was there last year as an audience and was shocked with the whole event. I even wrote a post of what I saw. I can not read the original post of this thread, I wish I could and get further information about the whole scam. I can not believe they are holding another year of the pagaent. Wow....How can they be so shameless? Moreover, its sad to see that they even got 16 participants after last year's disaster. I hope the 16 ladies review the organizers history and have some self respect enough not to participate in such phony pageant. I respect my time enough not to attend the shameless circus this year. Last edited: 24-Jul-13 09:06 AM
Nepalkochoraa · Jul 24, 2013 9:05 AM
@khairey, you fine man.. no fines this time. but be careful in future. eventually i will take your name out of the list, given good behavior!
Mister · Jul 24, 2013 7:32 PM
if simple girl is telling the truth about Sarah Gurung then she should personally apologize to all participants and viewers for encouraging them to delay a program. Drinking and smoking weed don't make anybody look wrong though, it's her personal life.
Whiteboy · Jul 25, 2013 2:46 AM
as a participant of 2012 i wanna say something again @ Sadikhya Silwal - from what i saw werent you the one who was crying and hugging organizer sarad singh and saying "dai show ramro bhayo, i am so sorry if we made any mistakes, you have taught so much" ?? i was sitting right there... so now what happened? show bhako bela ma chahi kasile kehi bhanenan.. they did ask us if everything is ok and if we were having any issues.. at that time no one spoke up.. There is no one to blame but us... and thats it... One more thing.. they are humans and they made mistakes.. we have to look at what they are doing and if they are correcting those mistakes.. i learnt so much from this event.. got a good name .. the organizers have this year tried to correct those mistakes and have come out publically saying " We understand and honestly admit that due to various situations and circumstances, Miss Nepal US might have fallen short of expectations in past years, but rest assure that we always wanted to thrive for the best for each and every participant and guests." check out these link and see for yourselves that they are trying to make it better this year.. as a former participant i fully support them this year... http://www.missnepalus.com/adm... http://missnepalus.com/titlena... Read those carefully ...
simplegirl · Jul 25, 2013 10:07 AM
This is looking more and more like tabloid news. Katti matrai kura launey yo Nepali haru. Yesley yesto garyo usley tyeso bhanyo man, sick and tired of this bull shit. NO MORE OF THIS BULL SHIT !!
BathroomCoffee · Jul 25, 2013 11:12 AM
@simplegirl you must be winner or major title holder in show. What did you learn from such shi*y program? I got good name re !!! Kalle chincha timlai ?? Ke pragati garya chau tes pachi. Tato na bhutlo kuro garne !!
facebook · Jul 25, 2013 8:28 PM
This is the wrong platform for those talented girls wishing to achieve their dream. Wake up girls do not waste your time and go home before it is too late ! It wasn’t long until ज्योतिका श्रेष्ठ, the make up artist for the event, found herself stuck in a very unorganized team having to deal with some unprofessional members and called it a quit ! To read her interview with Lex Limbu click the following link: http://lexlimbu.com/2013/08/fo... Last edited: 03-Aug-13 05:25 PM
la1na · Aug 3, 2013 5:24 PM
There are issues with most Nepalese events in the USA. This is because ticket revenue is not enough to make them profitable enough to produce professional shows.
Power_Ranger · Aug 7, 2013 3:42 PM
What is boycott Miss Nepal USA demanding? 1) a public apology from Mr. Singh? 2) some monetary reimbursement? 3) activism to make this year's show a failure 4) activism so another event doesn't happen again run by Mr. Singh?
Power_Ranger · Aug 7, 2013 3:52 PM
Just Boycott it, will you?
Gorikopoi · Aug 7, 2013 7:32 PM
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