how to reject a girl?

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 My kith and kin are showing prospective brides for me and I had to add them in facebook in order to interact with them. Now the problem is how to reject them?I don't wanna sound rude and wanna be as polite as possible. Any suggestions to deny them gracefully? thanks! 

lincoln · Mar 20, 2013 8:35 PM · 21,360 views

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Tell them you have a friend and handsome guy, he is interested, so u had no choice.. then u can send them my facebook or give me their facebook... :)

nagan · Mar 20, 2013 8:59 PM

 Dude, That's what happened to me. I had to say that i am looking for a mature girl (she was little young !). I told her you're still young and you need to complete your studies and all that. But i still kept her in facebook. Days went by and started chatting with her again in facebook pretty much everyday. Now, here i am married with her now  lol 

US returnee · Mar 20, 2013 9:06 PM

 nice story US returnee..but I don't envision myself in that kind of situation. She is just not my type. And I worry....if I should add other prospective brides as well. It is just so difficult for me to say NO. :(

lincoln · Mar 20, 2013 9:18 PM

 @nagaan, that sounds like a plan. Why don't you pass along your facebook ID so that I in turn can pass along to the girls? I would be more than glad to do you that favor... :D

lincoln · Mar 20, 2013 9:20 PM

ok lincoln bro, just say to them nice, handsome guy, age 29, working in usa, has car, house.. hoina.. they will also be happy ni that this guy from usa is taking interest in them.. good for u also ni for giving good referal... and good for me also.. everybody happy.. http://www.facebook.com/ Last edited: 20-Mar-13 10:29 PM

nagan · Mar 20, 2013 9:57 PM

1)Tell her in a nice way that you cannot see the relationship going beyond friendship. It is   better to be honest, otherwise she might think you are leading her on and might start to   fantasize. 2)Send her an "accidental" email. If her name is Anmol, address her as Anjali or something   Create a fake story. For example, "Anjali, it was nice to chat with you the other night.   I hope when i am in Nepal, we can go to Nagarkot as planned." 3)Send her a goodbye email which goes something like, "The past year has been wonderful. You are   a nice person and it was a pleasure meeting you. However, i do not see any possibility of a   relationship between us. I wish you best of luck and happiness for your future." 4)Send her an "accidental" text message on her mobile. 5)Change your facebook status to "In a relationship." And appear busy on facebook. 6)Tell her you are not really into Nepali girls. You like korean or filipino girls.  

freedom2012 · Mar 21, 2013 12:37 AM

Aaaba bhayeni "No" ta bhannai paryo. Just tell her that she is a great girl and she deserves someone who will love her a lot but you are not the one for her. She deserves to know what you did not like in her. So, try to explain in a polite manner your point of view.  Best wishes finding "the ideal girl" :) -Geshe

Geshe · Mar 21, 2013 3:10 AM

 thanks geshe. your input was insightful.

lincoln · Mar 21, 2013 12:19 PM

US returnee: That was a good one. Once they get a hold of you and are determined, you just can't do anything bout it. hehee lol

Poon-Hill · Mar 21, 2013 1:19 PM

tell her you think of her as a bahini LOL

nepaligal81 · Mar 21, 2013 2:07 PM

WELLL learn from da druggist !! SAY I got herpes and hiv by doing drugs.

druggist · Mar 21, 2013 7:04 PM

@ Druggist, she might say, "It is ok. Nepal survives on Aids!" :)

freedom2012 · Mar 21, 2013 10:00 PM

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