Darshan Rauniyar's Response regarding exploiting Nepali nanny

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DARSHAN RAUNIYAR’S RESPONSE I was shocked and could not believe the story by Salokya on the Mysansar blog and on seeing the video attached. I realize that an email requesting my comments was sent to me but it went into spam and I just read it last night. It is very disappointing to note that a blog like Mysansar decided to rush this story to publication in complete disregard of fair and responsible journalism. They did not bother to extend minimal courtesy, did not follow-up and made no further efforts to reach me. As a result, blog readers have posted irresponsible comments without reading my side of the story. The bulk of the comments therefore are shallow and judgmental. The commentators jump to the conclusion that I exploited and abused Ms. Bista, which is utterly false. I wish they had been afforded the opportunity to hear my clarifications on such a grave litany of charges. To me, it smells like a conspiracy to maliciously discredit me and to damage my reputation. I wish Mysansar will behave more responsibly in the future and adhere to the basic principles of fair journalism and honor the basic ethics of responsible journalism. My Clarification Ms Bista is a long and trusted family friend. She joined my mother and my family in Nepal as domestic help and worked for many years. It greatly hurts my feeling to hear the charges in her voice. I believe that she has been misled. Knowing her and on the basis of her loving and affectionate relationship with my mother and rest of the family, I could hardly believe her words and I am confident that she did not mean what she said. Hopefully, she will set the record straight one day. As far as I know, she expressed her desire to visit U.S.A. and accompany my mother. As she was very close to my mother and in view of her long dedicated service to our family, we decided to reward and grant her wish. We paid for her air ticket. While in the U.S.A., we provided her room and board. She travelled and stayed as a family friend and there were no contractual obligation to do any work. As members of American households do their part and share the household work, she voluntarily did her part just like rest of us. But, there was no compulsion or obligation whatsoever. She was very pleased and repeatedly expressed her heartfelt gratitude for the opportunity to visit U.S.A. I am a law abiding person and it is patently absurd to think that I would have brought Ms. Bista to the US for any kind of work on a tourist visa. I own and run a business and I know the regulations for hiring help and the prevailing wage rates. All the money given to her was for pocket expenses and sundries and there never was any employment contract of any kind between us. So, the fact is that she travelled and stayed as a family friend and she promptly returned to Nepal and her passport was handed to her family. There is absolutely no reason for us to hold her passport, which we had helped her get so that she could travel to the U.S. This sounds like a conspiracy against me and I am confident that certain individuals are willfully and maliciously stirring up this mischief. It may even have to do with my recent visit to Nepal and my high visibility. As I believe in Democracy and Rule of Law, if necessary, I will get to the bottom of this matter. I would like you all to know that Nepal is very dear and special to me. I will continue help Nepal and nothing will ever deter me.

cybernepali · Feb 6, 2013 9:35 AM · 14,061 views

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Darshan Rauniyar does not know that mysansar is a personal blog and Salokya is not a journalist he's a blogger. In mysansar salokya wrote that Darshan rauniyar called the womans house after the piece was published in mysansar, and told them that he would return the passport.

rethink · Feb 6, 2013 10:11 AM

Don't worry Darsan ji American politicans keep mistresses. Your is nothing compared to theirs. If someone is jealous of your popularity, then they will find lice in your head and make big news. Last edited: 06-Feb-13 11:02 AM

DCGirl · Feb 6, 2013 10:54 AM

Mr.Rauniyar thought we would buy this story. I do not about how much of a family friend the lady was to him but he sure sponsored her to have her work as a nanny. Otherwise people are not stupid to realise that in a country like US, people do not invite a family friends and have them stay with them without any motive. Look at the ignorance of Mr.Rauniyar First he thought Americans are stupid enough to give him a ticket ot get him elected as congressman Second he thought Nepalese are stupid too to believe his goofy story.

champak123 · Feb 6, 2013 11:13 AM

So, Darshan showed his kindness to a domestic helper in Nepal by buying her flight tickets and on top of that, he also compensated her well by paying $100/month "for pocket expenses and sundries"? And he expects us to fall for this load of baloney? He probably thought not compensating Ms. Bista according to prevailing wages would go under the radar and thusly, he took her help for granted. Who's gonna fall for this sort of crap? If she was paid 100 bucks/month, you really gotta wonder how much she's been paid. 

riddle · Feb 6, 2013 11:21 AM

how long did she stayed in the US. i would have belived this guy had she stayed for a short period of time but she stayed for 10 months. intention of this guy is pretty clear here. weather you take mysansar as a fake journalism or a blog, but this story is real.

dolphin · Feb 6, 2013 11:56 AM

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