Hi, I just got married in nepal and it takes almost one and half year to get my citizenship and bring my wife here, what you guys suggests to have baby in nepal or not. Thank you.
dkisharma · Jan 4, 2013 9:44 PM · 11,411 views
Your intent isn't really clear based on your posting.
riddle · Jan 4, 2013 10:10 PM
Good Question, I have seen many green card holders or citizens while they were awaiting to bring thier spouses, they had to sponser for two , one for spouse and other for his/her children. Ask your spouse is she ready to have baby while you are away ? It is your personal plan and how you want to do, upto you.
magorkhe1 · Jan 4, 2013 11:10 PM
Agree with Riddle. How can you have baby here, without having your wife here? Are you saying if you want to have a baby here you are going to have to wait 1.5 years? Why is this a problem? If the question is where to have a baby, then it is your personal choice. Having baby in US made sense to me as he can get his citizenship here easily and in case Nepal institutes dual citizenship policy, he can have Nepali citizenship as well because his dad is a Nepali citizen. Child care, nursing etc are much better here without a doubt. But raising a child from Nepali perspective and instilling Nepali culture will be much difficult if your child is born and raised here.
Kiddo · Jan 4, 2013 11:39 PM
Do not await longer, while your wife awaiting for immigrat visa, she can raise children , better have use of fertility , two kids at a time , no more pregnacny. That what I whould have done. H a haa
Magorkhe1 · Jan 5, 2013 10:28 AM
Unless you are in your mid thirties, dont have a baby. You might be getting pressured by your folks who want grandchildren, but wait for it. Enjoy your life and save some money before jumping for a kid. You might bw thinking that you will leave the kid with your parents to raise em. But why? Have a kid when you get here. At least there wont be a hassle of immigration. You can always go back to Nepal and then leave your kid with your parents.
maxpayne · Jan 5, 2013 2:14 PM
Us
intelligentguy · Jan 5, 2013 7:31 PM
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