Hello Friends, Just thought I should start a thread that could help me and many Nepali freinds around the world. I am 26 and never had a girlfreind. Before you start assuming... I am 5-10, 160lbs and don't look bad at all. Its not that I am not freindly. Like most of us, I have many friends, mostly guys. There have been some freinds (girls) in my life I wanted to further our relationship but never had success. I didn't know where to start or what to talk. What lines to use to hint a Nepali girl that I am interested? Whenever I start talking to a girl, my head goes blank and feel like there is nothing else is left to talk. What should I do in that situation? I am sure there are some pros out there who can give suggestions to me and many otheres. I have googled this topic but it talks about being yourself, funny and honest. Doing that has kept me single for 26 years!!!!!  PS: I don't wanna ask my parents to find a girl for me. Serious suggestions only please.

punk_biologist · Dec 31, 2012 9:58 AM

   Dude you are 26 & never have a girlfren...   you sounded so frustrated...so here are my 2 Cents for ya...               These kind of things are not like ....you want to have a girlfren & you will have her ...   Love just happens you know & if both ways then you'll have a girl fren on your Wife A/c shortly....  which never happened to ya...                So, my personal advice to ya is to give up that hope & ask your parents to find somone & go for a marriage boH...   26 is too late to have a girl fren lol..                 Sad but true,I doubt if you'll ever have a girl fren either, sorry about that.....but guess wut your future wife will be too happy to have you ....even though it sounds so unreal on this modern world..      By the way, Change you name..& give it a try...  I think   ... Punk & biologist just don't fudge right !!! Happy & Wonderful 2013 Dude Sujhab

sujhab · Dec 31, 2012 10:29 AM

it is not woth it.....especally with these Nepali girls......I really don't like Nepali girls.......don't waste your time...it is no big deal not having a girlfriend....I, too, never had a girlfriend......right now, I have couple of  contacts that I have sex with regularly....that works for me fine...

ashishme · Dec 31, 2012 11:13 AM

 Dear Sujhab, Thank you so much for taking your time to give me you two cents. I really appreciate it. It looks like you have tons of experiance having grilfreinds and relationship. I agree with you that 26 is kinda late to have first girlfreind but with your expertise, you really think I should stop looking because its too late?????? at 26? As your comment suggests, I am hoping "it will just happen" soon!!!!! And please do google "biopunk'. Ashishme- Thanks for your input too. I guess its your choice you don't like Nepali girls. I don't think all nepali girls are bad. I have had friends who are awesome and would love to have them as my gf. Its just that I can't have a good converstion with them that could make them attrected to me. Or may be I could't tell them that I was attracted. After reading the comment about 26 being too late. Am I the only one aound sajha yet to have a first gf? I thought I would do a little research. Out of my freiends on facebook (around my age), more than 75% are single. I am not sure if they had gf before but but 75% I think is still large. 

punk_biologist · Dec 31, 2012 11:51 AM

I had concentrate on my career first, these things happen when they do. Not unless you are the type to hanker after girls like some guys do. Reading your thread shows you are not that type. I am also not that type. The relationships that i had just happened without any plans. I never chased after any girl in my life but when you socialise and make friends, these relationship simply happened. So really, if you are desperate then you need to take this differently. No use being starry eyed. Choose someone who u know is single. Then text her and call her everyday for a month to show your interest. Then suddenly stop texting and calling her. This might make her curious. This might work sometimes.  

freedom2012 · Dec 31, 2012 12:32 PM

I think you need to go to personals section on Craigslist. It will definitely help. There are so many lonely people out there. Good Luck. 

lopchandai · Dec 31, 2012 12:41 PM

If your goal is just to have a girlfriend, then I think you're going about it the wrong way. A girlfriend is not something that you own like a tablet or a pair of jeans, she's a person. So that means, you have to put in the effort, just like you make an effort in your Biology exams.  Who cares who assumes anything even if you're 26 and don't have a significant other yet, insecurities aren't attractive. Perhaps, you should work on yourself first.  Lastly, start off as friends, focus on getting to know the other person...that's how you can avoid confidence spasms, it's not just about you in a relationship . Being in a bad relationship is bad, worse, so no rush. Life is too short just to focus on a significant other. Goodluck and 2013 will bring you some love!

FoxConn · Dec 31, 2012 1:10 PM

 Have you tried Nepallove.com? maybe it might work for you.

vasudev · Jan 2, 2013 12:58 AM

 यस्ता तरुनी पत्त्याउनि तिर नलागी खुरुक्क आमाबौलाई बुहारी खोज्न लगाउ परेको मा बेहोरुला बरु  अब तिमि संग १७ १८ को पत्तिन्न अरु पत्तिये शुददी होला भन्ने डर तेती मात्त्र हैन कहिलेकाही त ३ ओटा भुशुना भाका नि हुन्छन सो ट्रस्ट यौर प्यारेन्ट्स गो फर arange 

36x36 · Jan 2, 2013 1:38 AM