Having Babies

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I dont know why nepali people cannot understand individual right to prefer not to have babies. It does not mean a person is sterile. It may mean that the person is practical and does not want a burden to raise a baby in these expensive times. Many people have kids just because they find it awww so cute. For me that is not good enough a reason. Many others want their family name to move on thus they have kids. And there are others who think that kids will look after them in their old age. For me, i tend to think who cares about a family name after you are gone. And what guarantee is that kids will look after you in your old age in these modern times?  So i have decided not to have kids. The population of the world is exploding. There are 7 billion people. I am doing others a favour by making a few less competitors for the resources. So Thank Me! It is because of guys like me your kids will have some more resources. More Water, More Rice. I know someone who has 4 kids. She finds kids cute. Of course they are. But there is no need to give birth to 4 kids to prove that. There are so many orphans and homeless kids. One can also adopt!. Stop and think my friends! I am not discouraging anyone here. It is just that many people seem to be so focussed on the "get married have kids" lifestyle that they cannot see or understand any alternative. This is so very true for asian people. 

freedom2012 · Dec 20, 2012 12:42 PM · 51,901 views

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Freedom, trust me I didn't get offended personally. I don't have 2 or 3 kids so it really doesn't apply to me. What offends me is seeing people's answer as if they have actually been through it and are all of a sudden an expert on this. How dare you say that having more than 2 kids means you are burdening the world?? First of all it takes two to make two; that's not even a population increase, that's a constant. As for your original question, I totally sympathize with you. What you chose to do should be yours to worry about, not a concern for others. If you decide not to have a baby, go for it; I won't be judging you.

Kiddo · Dec 23, 2012 1:09 PM

 having kids just for the sake of having them shouldnt be the reason of having them

kittys · Dec 23, 2012 3:30 PM

Gareeb ani dherai Jana sankhia Thao ma janmaono tati buddhimani Kam Hoina Tara Phere dhaney ani Thorai janasankhia bhaeko Thoma hanmaoni cha thikthikai hola Bhannu parla hoina

intelligentguy · Dec 23, 2012 10:54 PM

having babies is just the hot topic for american too, by 2040 , the america will be ruled by minorities coz american are having less or LATE BABIES.

oh · Dec 23, 2012 11:22 PM

I have heard rumers scientist found water in moon and I have seen one movie called another earth so u never know scientist may find something livable in moon so just in case that happen

intelligentguy · Dec 24, 2012 6:48 AM

GU kha oh

intelligentguy · Dec 24, 2012 6:56 AM

Real time world statistics. www.worldometers.info/

old jeans · Dec 25, 2012 12:59 PM

To follow up with this thread, how do you say what is the "right" number of kids you can have. Yea, of course there is no law against having as many kids as you want. But even if we could afford, can you justify having a bunch? It is sad that most human being simply cannot afford one, yet they end up with many. Religion, social pressure and family belief plays a vital role on a person's decision. If China and India were Chatholic or Mormon, then that will be the end of this world. We'll have trillions of human being on this earth. Human being should NOT be allowed to have babies like dog. Remember Octomom, she has 14 kids, and she is broke. She had to resort to play porn to feed her babies, shame on her. Everybody hates her. Yea, there is no law to arrest her, but that is simply NOT right. So are the "Duggars" family, please take a look how religion can effect's people's view, these people have 19 kids and strict religious Chiristian thinks it is "OK" to have so many babies. Please do not be like them, think before you have babies. www.usmagazine.com/celebrities/nadya-suleman

Vhootee · Dec 27, 2012 1:49 PM

Vhootee, actually white people are reproducing less. It is actually muslims who reproduce the most as it helps to take over the world in numbers, that is why they claim to be "fastest growing".  Some religion take it personally to reproduce for vested interests. Not many think of the overpopulated planet and ever decreasing resources.  

freedom2012 · Dec 27, 2012 2:30 PM

 freedom I know. But white society is more transparent than the others, hence my example. You're very true about the muslim population. Most of them have multiple wives with 40-50 kids. We simply don't see them on the news, but I do agree, they are over populating the earth with their beliefs, which is very sad.

Vhootee · Dec 27, 2012 2:33 PM

i wanna adopt 3 kids - 1 white, 1 black, 1 asian and have only 1 kid of my own...lol

cajunboy · Dec 27, 2012 2:49 PM

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