Posted by: ujl September 9, 2016
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@Bigrekomanxe... You are 29 and your wife's age is 23. Human mind is usually restless till it reaches 30. You have to be very vigilant about your thoughts and desires because what you are is your deepest desires and thoughts. It is easy to tame a wild animal but extremely hard to control one's own mind. Whoever knows how to control his/her mind is worthy of worship in this world.
You must understand that whatever comes also goes. Why make a big fuss about temporary phenomenon of this world and make our lives more complicated? Why become slave of our own thoughts and desires which are not even us deep down? Newton's third law of motion states that: "To every action there is an equal and opposite reaction." Similarly, your actions also do have consequences. Please understand that the law of karma is at work in this world. You seek a divorce from an innocent wife who has not committed any faults, you are implanting a seed for greater destruction in your life. Life is a continuous phenomenon until total liberation. Don't be stupid and engage yourself in a childish act and suffer unlimited pain and sorrow. What has gone is gone. Once a river merge in an ocean, do the river lost anything? Similarly, your ex has gone, your wife has come! How awesome is that? You should be thankful to the law of the universe: It gives us whatever we deserve!
The problem is never outside. I used to move from one city to another city seeking happiness but i couldn't find it anywhere. Later, one day I sat in meditation and found a whole new inner world which is vaster than this word! This world keeps changing. You cannot deny this fact. Whatever thoughts you are experiencing right now is merely thoughts and imagination. All imaginations are mental hallucinations which are experienced as if they are real! The water seen on the mirage is not a real water and will never quench your thirst. Similarly, you are hallucinated by your own psychological conditioning. All psychological conditioning is a mental disease. Get rid of those cancers called thoughts and desires, and be peaceful by becoming no-mind. The moment you understand how to witness all these thoughts without being swayed away, you understand who you are and how to handle situations. Why claim the ownership of thoughts and desire and experience ups and down in life when by becoming indifferent to them brings supreme bliss? Let the happening happen, you control your mind!
Coming back to your present reality, your mind is imagining that someone is your wife, your mind is also imagining that someone is your ex! Both are merely imaginations and hence fictitious hallucinations. Both are unreal reality including your own mind! However, for the shake of bringing unreal happiness in your present life, you need to play a game of unreal business here. It is now time to do what economist call "cost benefit analysis." You ask yourself what is the cost of divorcing your wife and what is the cost of bringing back your ex in your life. Once you calculate the costs and benefits, do what pleases you, rest will be taken care by your karma.
Om Tat Sat.
You must understand that whatever comes also goes. Why make a big fuss about temporary phenomenon of this world and make our lives more complicated? Why become slave of our own thoughts and desires which are not even us deep down? Newton's third law of motion states that: "To every action there is an equal and opposite reaction." Similarly, your actions also do have consequences. Please understand that the law of karma is at work in this world. You seek a divorce from an innocent wife who has not committed any faults, you are implanting a seed for greater destruction in your life. Life is a continuous phenomenon until total liberation. Don't be stupid and engage yourself in a childish act and suffer unlimited pain and sorrow. What has gone is gone. Once a river merge in an ocean, do the river lost anything? Similarly, your ex has gone, your wife has come! How awesome is that? You should be thankful to the law of the universe: It gives us whatever we deserve!
The problem is never outside. I used to move from one city to another city seeking happiness but i couldn't find it anywhere. Later, one day I sat in meditation and found a whole new inner world which is vaster than this word! This world keeps changing. You cannot deny this fact. Whatever thoughts you are experiencing right now is merely thoughts and imagination. All imaginations are mental hallucinations which are experienced as if they are real! The water seen on the mirage is not a real water and will never quench your thirst. Similarly, you are hallucinated by your own psychological conditioning. All psychological conditioning is a mental disease. Get rid of those cancers called thoughts and desires, and be peaceful by becoming no-mind. The moment you understand how to witness all these thoughts without being swayed away, you understand who you are and how to handle situations. Why claim the ownership of thoughts and desire and experience ups and down in life when by becoming indifferent to them brings supreme bliss? Let the happening happen, you control your mind!
Coming back to your present reality, your mind is imagining that someone is your wife, your mind is also imagining that someone is your ex! Both are merely imaginations and hence fictitious hallucinations. Both are unreal reality including your own mind! However, for the shake of bringing unreal happiness in your present life, you need to play a game of unreal business here. It is now time to do what economist call "cost benefit analysis." You ask yourself what is the cost of divorcing your wife and what is the cost of bringing back your ex in your life. Once you calculate the costs and benefits, do what pleases you, rest will be taken care by your karma.
Om Tat Sat.