@BigrekoManxhe:

Due, if it helps, in addition to all the wonderful and unbiased thoughts and advises from other posters - STAY WITH YOUR WIFE. Right now, your brain and judgment is clouded; you're biased; and are unable to think clearly and see the right thing. Why? Because of your emotions and feelings for your ex. But all these people on Sajha that are advising you, myself included, are seeing the situation neutrally. Are basing their judgment neutrally. And are advising your neutrally (and some based on their personal experiences too, I am sure). So, please listen to us all and as much as difficult it might be, cease any emotions or feelings for your ex. If you think you made a mistake by marrying your wife, be a man and own up your mistake and make it right by living the husband-wife relationship.

What do you think? All marriages are supposed to be perfect as soon as two people agree to live together and perform some hours lasting rituals? It takes time and effort and understanding and trust and many many more things for both individuals to live a happy and healthy marriage. For some, it will not be that hard because and for others may be a little harder to sustain a marriage. You are clouded with seconds thoughts about your marriage and about your ex, so naturally it will be difficult for you to challenge yourself and build and nurture and cultivate love and affection and feelings for your wife, but you ought to do it.

Think for a moment - if you abandon your wife and go back to your ex. What are the chances, she will not change her mind and start ignoring you for a small reason or no reason?

Please do yourself a fever. Forget about the past. Make it up with your wife. Good Luck!