I am amazed at such mature and thoughtful responses in Sajha. Sometimes Sajha got taken over by immature and Bigreka manche with 'you know what' topics. But this time looking at the answers, I can say that Nepali parents have done a good job in instilling good sense into most of us. This is the reason why they say "Nepali people are one of the most helpful people in the World".

BigrekoManxe,
Life is full of decisions. Every decision has good side and bad side. It is your perspective, how you look at it. In your case, you have already made a decision, thought under pressure, to marry. In life you will get a lot of opportunities to reconsider your marriage and many people are still reconsidering after having 2 kids. But they don't have the guts to go right out and make a decision they want or the good sense to live with their decisions.

Marriage is not what we see in Movies. This is why in our culture, love marriage is not given the importance as in western culture or even in today's Bolywood movies.

Talk to your wife about stuff like how she's feeling after coming to new place. You'll get to know her. Who knows? in time, you may even fall in love with her.