Forgot about your ex and focus on your wife.Remember your ex left you once and she could leave you again. No matter how pretty,hot she may be, you have no future with her.
"Our heart doesn’t always love the right people at the right time. Sometimes we hurt the ones that love us the most and sometimes we love the ones that don’t deserve our love at all. "

Dont be foolish and ruin what you already have to get something you may never have.