Confused, alas my Hanuman, I can only see a Bhakta in you and what you do with your cyber-illusive Bhakti is your business! And, like DP, I wish you best of luck in your (futile) quest for Sitara, "sigh"!. You might wanna listen to Dyam! Back to the topic at hand: One important Laxan: A guy who can take "No" for an answer, with dignity--without whining, grumbling, blustering and/or lashing out! Definitely, a rare quality there.