LOL guys ! Actually humans are naturally conservative and any pretension not to be conservative results in conflict in life. We are result of influences from family (home), society, education and various propaganda etc. Very existence of personality (as I/Me) demands separateness from the others which exactly is the judgement/discrimination/identification to something (family, race, or something else). So to say "I dont judge, I dont discriminate based on this or that" is outright wrong.
Deep down we all discriminate/judge/compare/hate/love/identify/conform constantly and this constant activity in mind gives us a sense of continuity of existence for which we are very proud/ashamed (proud and shamed are same thing).
Fighting on the object of judgement positively or negatively is just the best way to continue it.

Good luck! Lol