wow, what's wrong with you? I only gave the suggestion of dating outside our culture because of statistics. Her chances of finding someone at the age of 38 significantly goes up if you look beyond Nepali population. It has nothing to do with Nepali guys being good or bad. There are good people and assholes in all cultures. Why are you personally attacking people like you know them? And no, I am not looking for myself. I am an old time lurker here and when I saw this thread I thought of my cousin. Her parents keep bugging me to find someone for her. Not that I have to defend myself to you. My cousin or any other girl is perfectly capable of accepting or rejecting offers from guys. Just because someone shows interest doesn't mean it's a good match. And if you think there is no gender discrimination in Nepali culture, you're just living in denial and contributing to the discrimination. This is my last response to you, you bitter person.