yestai_cha, why try to make this a guy vs girl thing? Are you saying only girls are guilty here? Nepali guys don't run after white girls like they are some trophy? They don't try to sleep with as many girls as they can and go to Nepal in the end and marry an "innocent" Nepali girl? Are you forgetting that our culture heavily favors boys? If that 38 year old girl was a guy, she would have been able to marry a girl 10 years younger than her and no one would bat an eye. .