Sweetie, you are really funny--- If only people could learn from you-- on how to contradict on your own words.... Ms. sweetie if you didn?t notice I had quoted your comments before I gave my opinion on it. Well correct me if i'm wrong but this statement: "The truth is whatever they wear nepali women aren't independent, strong, nor has capabilities to choose their own husband, job, careers etc. U all know this.......why ignore it then?" does not sound like you are blaming the society and not women. Oh well may be i am wrong ...because i am not as educated as you are ... after all i am not a so called "white" or copying one of "white's" Right??? Well, if i remember correctly you are the one who said we should be copying what "white girls --according to you americans" wear to be forward in life ..and when you couldn't validate your own point here in sajha.... then you said lets "put dress subject aside......nobody even bothered to comment on the my main point about learning from american women about their qualities( independence, brain, ability to make her own decisions in life etc)."------- but sadly you couldn't even validate this point either... So now you are saying that you are not blaming nepali women but the society itself.... hahaha let me think now whats gonna be your next point??? hmmm Sweetie :"I am not blaming the society actually i am blaming this world for the situation of Nepal and Nepali women ;o)" One conclusion i came after reading all your gibberish (which was a big torture) was ......you have successfully copied your so called "white" people .....esp. the blondes-- dumb ones. And sweetie just chill, nobody is saying that we are admiring the wrong society...... nobody is saying that we are proud of dowry system...... nobody is saying that we dont like modern clothes (according to you western clothes) but all we are saying is we dont have to hate and look down upon our own nepali clothes...... So Pleaseeeeeeeeee stop twisting and turning things over here ..... And out all the people ...you thought i was doing blah blah ..... Isn't it ironic..don't you think so????hehe Huh... i know there is no point on saying all this things to you because i'm sure it wont go in your head..... Well i dont wanna go on with you and your gibberish because there is no way anyone can have a sensible discussion with you ..and ....especially when you contradict your own word its completely impossible. So please spare me?.