@San,
dont be much diplomatic, you are smart and lucky too, sajha.com is popular all over with all gender and age which you can not hide it, and users have complained sajha is being almost a porn site too, did you say any words, there are users came with their real name too and I did not see you passing by among sajha users

please do not take it serious, this is just my feelings poured out to you, there should be always civil manners and respect each other regardless whether the real name or user name since we are in an open forum, all our family and friends are reading and sharing information in sajha