Miss Anu I welcome thee in sajha. As you are from Madhes and in Nepal Madhesi women are suffering more compared to women of Hills and Mountains mainly because of cultural issues. If I may, I would like to suggest that you start your social endevour from Madhes itself.

As you may have heard things that does not kill you will make you strong. So, I think comments from sajhaites will make you strong.

Language and culture are not permanent, they changes with time and social need. These days language and culture are being used disintegrate people. In fact language and culture were created to integrate.
At present the concept is of "global villaage" because of tremendous developpment in communication. languages will disappear, culture will die.

Even Rome could not survive the change. But we are fighting for Pitty things.

If you beleive in god then I would say they could not save "satya yug"
Ram was not able to save "Dwaper yug" lilkely Krishna was not able to save the "Treta yug". Everything changes with time, those who are not able to change with time will disappear.
Nothing lasts forever. Our problem is we would like to continue which was important in last century.
I hope your sociual work will benefit women from Madhes.