Well.... Sweetie's post is so long that I dun even feel like reading it... anyway... y make ladies' zone an argument field...?? Lemme ask u guys a ques(ladies).. Well there is a thing I hate ... (not all men) when men think that they are much m ore superior than women... i dun mean wen they joke.. joke ta all right... i mean when they really really say it from the heart...do u think its right? what happened once is that.. well i was staying with a male cousin of mine.. we worked durin the summer.. he had 2 days off and i had 1 day off... (a week) and he was like.. "tero day off ma kaahi bahira jaana pardaina khurukanna ghar basera ghar safaa garney khana pakauney... keti bhayera ghar hernu satta baheera ghumna jaana laaz lagdaina?" I was shocked I mean haami dubai jaana ko ghar ho he has 2 days off... tara he cant clean the house.. but when i have a day off i cant do what i like... when I said that was discrimination and that he has more days off so he should also clean... he said "tan american ko ki k ho thaah chaina.. ma ta nepali ho.. ani nepali keta le kai gardaina... keti le sabai ghar ko kaam garnu parchha!!" does being nepali mean that though the keti does every work ketas do.. ( i mean jobs) but ketas cant do ghar ko kaam.. i m proud to be a nepali but whenever some nepali s takes out ketas and ketis ko topic it really puts me off!!