Okay aisha, don't freak out dear...white meant people who live in USA.....that includes, hispanics, blacks, and asians..........it's just the term to refer to americans as a whole! Wow...wow....Andolan.....u are comparing me to BUSH haha! Dude, did u see my postings on the thread called "BUSH vs. Kerry"? Go look it up before u pass judgement on somebody who is quite opposite. Why are u bringing all these politics anyway......don't have any further points? U said I am in the wrong place right? Why is it full of people like u who thinks that in every thread people should agree with each other and not have a different view? LOL zeeee......u are funny don't tell me that readers are more educated than whites......give me a break... u can at least say they are as educated as whites......oh they are sooo well mannered that plenty of the readers follow and curse me whichever thread I go just because I didn't agree with them in one thread. GROW UP! That's not called DEBATE! Some readers have really depressing views like "men are dominated by women" or "people have enough to eat in Nepal".......go check it first and evaluate yourself! Oh u are getting really hilarious now! Are u trying to bring abortion topic. I don't want to go to abortion topic but now u have forced me to. Where did u get your anti-abortion statistics from? Did u hear about for abortion rally in Washington D.C few months ago? There were over 1 million women protesting against BUSH. And let me tell u that's the largest protest in D.C in history.....so I don't need to say anymore.....don't bring your nonsense statistics before knowing it exactly. As for the gay rights....yeah they are struggling but they are out there and can walk hand and hand and kiss in public....When do u think gays in Nepal will be able to come out in that conservative society? Well, nobody is forcing people to stay together before marriage.....but they have the right to do so if they want to....now whether they want to exercise that privilege or not is up to them. But for us, we can't even have a boyfriend forget about living together.......we don't have that privilege.......and we are missing out big time! U are comparing Nepal and USA in a vague way. Nepal is not as big as one state in USA whereas USA has 50 states.....yes there are some parts conservative and wants their wives to be at home but may be remote places........People who come to Jerry Springer are chosen from that kind of places......USA is way different than Jerry Springer buddy! Soap Operas are for rich and older women...........and let me remind u.....women here needs to have babies too right? They need to take a break few years to raise babies.......as men don't take care of the babies......but they have a choice. Some couples do both part-time jobs to support kids. Because both their careers are important to them. Nepalese women don't have these choices. Hahaha.....USA is stuck behind 10 yrs.....oh my god u are really something. No comment on that hehehehe! So u choose your partner through financial, moral and social status ......lol.....are u marrying a person or a status?? Wow as orthodox as it gets......Well dude, my mini is for summer time......duh I don't wear it in winter. Why shouldn't I wear my mini when it's more than 100 degrees outside.?? There are plenty of nice family oriented people buddy I guess u just haven't looked...this country is huge......don't just assume. Yeah isn't it ironic that people here don't care if my dad is a doctor? Ofcourse, they don't because they have to earn their own money, respect, career etc....Dads don't pay for son's tuition ......they do everything by themselves. It's not Nepal that if u are doctor oh u are a great person......they give a damn about it! Choosing your partner is a big fuss dear.....that's one of the most important decision in our life......what are u talking about? If u prefer arranged then fine....but I would say u have no comprehension of what u are missing out! Oh yeah I have dated one educated nepali man in US who acted like all nice and cool but later found out he's a major drug addict and superficial haha!