Sweetipie, It seems like you are in wrong place. I don?t see any difference between you and BUSH. Both of you are in wrong place. War in Iraq and your BS in sajha are same to me. You should be aware that you are writing in sajha and most of the sajha? readers are way more educated than average white people. They are more educated, well mannered, helpful, optimist and one more notable think that we sajha readers are not depressed like average white people. No matter of our social, racial, geographical, religious beliefs and values, we are not as biased as white people are. You can ask any educated average white male or female about inter- racial marriage, I bet more than 80% would like to stick with their own race. Have you ever had African American friend? They still have hatred towards white people in the core of heart. What is this? How long they have been practicing democracy? Is it really civilized society? If you go to rent nice apartment in rich white neighborhood or if you want to join rich golf club, you will be denied because simply you are minority. If you don?t believe me, ask any rich and educated white guy?..What is this? Isn't this descrimination? You said ? True that there are some white women in US who thinks abortion is wrong...why? Because of their religious beliefs? : I think upcoming election is clear example of Pro and anti abortion? look at stat how neck to neck they are: I mean Kerry and Bush.. You can simple tell by this stat how many people they are supporting anti abortion or Anti gay mentality. About gay and lesbians, what about ?don?t tell and don?t ask things?? Isn?t it some kind of discrimination? . What about gay couples don?t have right to visit their partners when they are in hospital or somewhere like that. Haven?t you heard about Blue ?. Something in Nepal, I forgot actual name of this organization who is working for gay and lesbian?s right for years. About staying together before getting married, there are lot of people who doesn?t like to stay together before get married in this country. I once took sociology class in college and we had to write paper about pro and con. Class split between almost half and half. This is just simple example of one the most liberal city of United States. South is a lot worse than this?.. About full time mom, there are lot of white mom just want to have baby to get child support. Watch how many soap opera there are in TV during day. Who do you think their audiences are ? All are full time mom and there are sill 10 ? 15% white males don?t want their wife to work. They just want to use them to raise baby and it happens in middle lower class. What kind of mentality is that? Have you ever watched Jerry springer show. This show represents huge number where only 23 % ( not sure, I think so) of whole populations are college graduate. Who says nepalis don?t have right to choose their partner. I think both guy and girl have some rights to choose their partner?s education, moral , social values. At least they try to match financial, social, moral and educational values. I think its getting lot better than before . It?s not about comparison. I think Nepal is going forward and American has stocked for last 10 years on same issues like gay, abortion., immigration. Move on Americans, world has gone too far and other developed countries like western Europe and Australia has solved this issue long time ago. You said? Wearing a mini doesn't make anybody ignorant or fool but only makes her fashion forward. Now u might say only dumb people wear those fashionable clothes......well u are wrong....Me and my friends are nowhere near dumb, ignorant infact most of my friends are really successful.... doctors, engineers,? It?s up to individual to choose their dresses. People wear whatever thinks it?s comfortable. You like to wear pants doesn?t mean everyone think pants are comfortable to wear than anything else. So forget this BS of mini and micro?. I think you mentioned somewhere in posting that look at internal, not external. I think you are looking at externally like average lower class white class woman. What you mean internal? Where in the world do u find out that white are kinder, helpful, trust worthy than Nepali? Don?t you know that African Americans even have more family values than white in this country? I never said your friends were dumb. I don?t care who you hang out but if you hang out with doctor or engineer means nothing to me. In this country, nobody will give shit who you hang out with?.. It?s not like Nepal that if you are dad is doctor; you will be respected ? so forget this BS. I don?t understand why you are making big fuss of choosing your own partner. I think its up to individual choice. Everyone is not like you and off course everyone doesn?t want to change them self because this country is like this or that. Whatever people feels, they do it that way? so forget about this big choosing partner fuss. ( one more question, have you ever dated any liberal, educated nepali guy in united states? ) I guess no. You do have stereotype against nepali guys?