I've noticed such insensitivity is more commonly expressed against minorities and especially women. These people always blame the victims and find excuses to justify it as the punishment. You don't need to go far; look at two of the active threads today:

Commenting on others' attire:
http://sajha.com/sajha/html/index.cfm?threadid=114251&noofposts=11

An actress gives tv interview and sick minds here think that she slept with the journalist after the interview.
http://sajha.com/sajha/html/index.cfm?threadid=114224&noofposts=15
"microbiology: I guess She probably Did it with him"