Here is the truth: By aborting, you are taking someone's right (to live) away.Your are forcing your decision onto him/her.What if the baby wants to live no matter what? By giving birth to a child, you as parents, are still forcing your decisions onto him/her.You two just decide that you want to have some "chum chum moments" and bring someone(the baby) to this world without his/her permission.And sometimes, even without your own intention.What if the baby never wanted to be born? Either way, you are enforcing your own decision. DP.