Wow!Hydrogen Sulphide. That could be the ultimate thing a nepali could say. But there is truth on your experiences. Let us not stay out of it, let us be a part of it and slowly change towards what we think is better. May take couple more generation though. All we need for now is detach ourselves and our kids from the influence of our parents generation. Let us inherit just a good thing as western or any other society is not perfect either. Better and worse in many comparisions.