Dharke,

You sound too gibberish now. Your irrelevant examples make no sense and you’re writing out of context examples to prove your biased discrimination against women. I like your four-point conditions, but can we make sure these are applied to both males and females equally.

These restrictions should be seen as not to disrespect women but as a security so that it won’t affect Nepalis economy.

Why do we need to secure nepali economy only from women and not from men?

 

Western world teaches that rights come with responsibilities. If you are not responsible court may take away your rights. and in western world  also says "Ignorance of the law is no excuse."

Are you the type of guys during old days of sati pratha who blamed women refusing to be burned along with their dead husband? Are you the one who cited all the texts blaming women and teaching them their responsibility that women should be RESPONSIBLE to die along with their husband?

 

Empowering women also means they understand their responsibility.

What kind of responsibility are we talking about? Why does this apply to only women and not to men?

 

Once they understand the responsibility they won’t marry a man who appears not ready to take his responsibility as father. Or not get pregnant from a man is not ready to give his child his rights. These things should be talked before marriage and getting pregnant ( offcourse 100% avoidence is not possible). Marrigae comes with economic and social responsibility.

-       You’ve no right to blame women. They’ve their right to marry whoever they want and protest against discrimination by state and you. I support this cause.

When you want to get citizenship you have to go through these papers. If you don’t have papers I suggest you start making  will be helpful for future.

-       What are you talking about? What papers are you talking about? Don’t you understand that current law doesn’t grant citizenship unless the children bring their father’s citizenship? All other documents come second. The first document they’re looking for is evidence from father.

So educating mothers, would be mothers, and teen agers, about the responsibility it comes with marriage, what happens in case of divorce, what happens if husband disappears?

-       Why do you want to teach responsibility only to women? I thought you knew better. Are you saying that women should be able to forsee if their husband will disappear or not? You make no sense here.

 

Your examples of US and European citizenship doesn’t apply here.

 

I have sympathy for people who are suffering and I think their problem need to be addressed but I don’t have sympathy for people who do not want to fulfill their responsibility. Now please don’t jump and conclude that I am against giving women right.  NO .I don’t like those fathers too who ran away from their responsibility.

-       They don’t need your sympathy. I clearly see now you want to CONTROL women, don’t you? Do you ALWAYS like to blame women?

 

These days lots of Nepali men in Middle East working to make money for their family back in Nepal. Every week we read news that wife ran away with another man or wife arranged the killing of her husband once he returned from Middle East. Now what is my answer you know?

-       You’ve no idea what you’re talking about. Can you make a guess who is likely to or does cheat more often? Men or women?

For all your other argument against economy, I don’t think you CARE about ECONOMY at all. Your sole biased intention is to DENY women from their RIGHTS. How many more problems can you write?

-       Western agenda

-       Threat to Nationality

-       Risk to Nepali Economy

-       Women like to cheat

-       Women are irresponsible

-       People from India will flood into Nepal and will evade Nepal

-       Demographic dynamics will change.

-       People will abuse the law to get citizenship ONLY through WOMEN (NEVER through men).

Please bring more. They don’t make any sense nor will they. All you want to do is to DENY women of their rights. Even if all your conditions are addressed, you will still see the problems.

When EDUCATED guys in western countries think like this, no wonder there’s so much discrimination, violence, abuse, bias against women in Nepal.