it's ok, you don't have to be apologetic. I have been living in chicago suburb for little more than two years and go to chicago downtown during the non-winter times because winter is obviously crazy here. But summer is awesome here depending on how you enjoy...
If you are flexible on moving, move to northern part of the city...if i am not wrong, most of the nepalese prefer to live in the north or west side of the city. south side is notorious for gun violence, robbery and physical assault,....