This Sajha is so funny, somebody wants a genuine advice and people just find something to fight for. Thanks Riddle bro for giving all the real life examples . If you can , give him suggestions that can help him right after arriving here, not the 5 -10 year plan of going to university and bla bla . Whatever I have done, it worked for me and I know it will work on the situation of peanutbutter, rest is his decision , peace brothers , happy holidays