Kiddo gave a good example but you can't compare a country to a job.

A more likey example would be a home. Let's say you have big fight with your father so you can't stay in the same house. So you have to go live in a different house. The thing is, even though you had fight with your father, you still love your mother and siblings and you want to go visit them sometimes.

You should not be denied to visit your mother and siblings just because you have irreconcilable differences with your father.