yes it has to be counted to be proven....casue you cant generalize few exceptions. women are allowed to choose their men but yeah you are right on that though not a lot of them can.its the same lady,may be a little less but men cant choose either.its the system that bau ama decides.we dont have free society like america and we really dont be proud moving out from our parents unlike america.so,thats the difference in system.may be a lil irrelevant but true may be thats one of the reason that there are not a lot of divorce cases unlike america. yeah women trafficing well may be they dont take women from america and take them to mexico but a lot of pimping goes there doesnt it ......... trafficing may not be the right word but oh well i am poor in english than you. i dont treat you as you killed anybody casue i have nothing persoanl against you.you are you i respect a free independent woman that you are but i dont really respect the "me is american" attitude denouncing us,ie nepalis all the time.you write as if we nepalis are all ignorant nonsense illeterate unaware peoples and specially the males. well honestly women are capable to almost everything a man can,except for the physical things well but that is natural.and i havea ll the respect for women but for those women who are women ie kind hearted soft souls.they can be very tough which is repectable as well but being tough and ,ok,******ing are two differnet thing arent they. i still hold it that i have repect to the all the woman but i dont respect ***** .thats true