Newyorker it seems like you are in a relationship with this simple sweet girl, but you are not sure about it since you do not feel she is modern enough to accompany you around your friends and other gatherings. Do you think she will embarass you?

Relationships are always complicated. Do you want to go with the one at hand or you want to seek another new educated smart girl? Will you even find an educated smart girl who will fall in love with you?

I am sorry I did not answer your question but this is one question you have to answer for yourself.