I like Nilasha's thoughts.
These 'with the devotion of love' craps never make sense to me. Are there anything like that men do for women? Fasting for a day, drinking that water...anything close to it? Heck no.

I respect the love and devotion that one has for his/her partner. And we are stronger on these values...but these one-sided things are just control mechanism. Just accept it people.