Well missdurga, if you are ditching teej then you should ditch Dar as well. Khaane kurama chaahi agaadi badhne ani aru kurama chaahi haami dabiyou bhanne ta ali thik chhaina ni haina? I have seen women eating too much on dar and suffering from diarrhea next day. Seen a lot of women hiding behind a curtain or in bathroom and eating and pretending as if they haven't eaten anything or drunk a single drop of water on teej (How could they eat inside bathroom...yuck!). Most of educated men don't push their wives to fast on teej and drink so called khuttaako paani, its women themselves who want showoffs, basically to take pictures with different poses and put on facebook or so...those are specially so called modern era women who keep talking about equality and all while they clearly know how their husbands are suffering from them...lol...glad that my wife is not one of those women and I am not one of those men you are talking about!

And yes, nepali guys learn from their moms and so should you girls....not from american b*****s! And by the way you guys also want to see quality of your dad on your male partner, don't you? Whats wrong with that? I don't think any! So why complain?