Sweetpie I will be waiting for the development of your plans... I hope its just not the seasonal croaking of frog... as for maitighar being successful... its not only the money... its the dedication of the women... who without caring of her life ...were there guarding on the boarders... money can play big role ...but more bigger than money is dedication and wisdom to move in right directions... Showing kindness is easy thing...because when you show kindness you become superior than one who receives kindness ... so I think instead of showing kindness... if we can put ourself into the shoes of under previleged people and walk beside them ...that is far more than enough in current situations