Thanks everybody for your wonderful notions! DP,appreciate for your excerpt.....marvelous point! It is exactly what I mean.....yes there is discrimination everywhere but there are many kinds of it and our system has one of the worst ones.... pieces.......hey are u intimidated by me or what hmm...... wherever I am u follow me brother.....oops! I called u a brother.......so I don't I want u even as my date..forget about being my husband. I am married...taken sorry! By the way I have a really nice husband for your information ;-)