As a nepali, and because of our culture, we nepalese do not try to judge our elders, let alone our parents. What we need to understand is everyone makes mistakes, everyone makes wrong decision, and very selfish ones. Only if we knew how to judge our parents and tell them they are wrong when they are, and they made selfish decision when they do, be it a decision to join a Maoists, a decision to get their son/daughter married without their approval to the ones chosen by them, while caring the least about the outcome for the kids, we wouldn't be crying or suffering everyday.