May be you should've thought about your conservative side before looking for a guy. Instead of looking for a normal guy, you should've looked for a dork with a chastity belt 'round his DONG! I don't think conservatives, especially "Nepali Conservatives" go seeking for love, they just wait for their parents to find them a dumb-ass to marry. So, long story short, to hell with your conservatives, either let him wank off to some porn or you take the "matter" in your own hands and start riding/blowing it!!! :D