Posted by: goodsoul June 23, 2014
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YoTaBhayenaniSom - Thank you for your advise.
all i want is a peace of mind and good approach to overcome this so that my old parent do not have to stress being sad due to the current situation and do not have to worry being concerned about my life and future.
(my mother is always worried that when she would be gone, there would not be anyone to love
me and support me. I believe that's why they say, 'she is a Mother who, only can provide unconditional love.')
Cursing my wife, making her life complex to teach her a good lesson for her pathetic deeds
couldn't revert what had already been happened. True, I do want her to realize some day that her pathetic deeds ruined my life and hers too.
However, I want her to realize her mistakes by herself rather than compelling her to understand it. I believe, may be in that case she could be able to respect
the relationship and would not repeat such pathetic deeds again in future whoever she would be with.
for education only i am ready to pay her, not for the court case because it would be supporting her for something wrong, which in my view is not right.
kajisahab and cybr- thank you for the suggestion.
I offered her some money before for her education and I still have it in a mind no matter she wins or looses the court case only because, i think higher level of education may be much helpful for her to develop maturity in her, thus making her independent and eligible to survive which probably make her realize some day that
'we need to hold the good relationship tight being honest and much understanding' which would make our life further easier.
intelligent guy - thanks. My dignity and principle would never let me accept her again though i do still love her and wish good for her. I wish i can accept her but that's not possible
daum - some people, some moments we can't forget in life. i have loved her before marriage and after marriage too, so for me forgetting her
is something that is not possible. But yes, life must go on and i have to move on
and i am doing the same. All I am trying to learn at the moment is to prepare for appropriate response against more threats and problems my wife may create so that I don't get into depression again. i wish she do not do so but i know she will.
rahulvai dai
तपाइको सजेस्शन मैले अरु कसैको divorce post मा पनि पढेको थिय . तेही बाट केहि idea पाएको हु. धेरै धेरै धन्यबाद.
nepalilaure - i do not have feelings or fantasy for my wife, but i can't deny i have loved her in the past and i still do and wish good for her future. life gives us only a chance. just couldn't compromise with relationship.
helpjava11 - thank you.
- i have to delete some replies due to the inappropriate contents as instead of suggestion I found more negative criticism.
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