Thank you all for your support and suggestions.
One more question plz... my so called spouse, is now saying he will stop that relationship (I know, they are still in touch) and doesn't want to have divorce with me cause he love me a lot. Its sad but true I also love him, but have question in my mind that, is he fooling me again,,? Should I hear my heart or my brain? Should I give him one chance or just finish it now? When I see his face I just want to forget and forgive everything but I am not sure about his intention. Please guys, need your suggestion.
Thank you