Lamps,
you are presenting your self as Moral Police. You think you know what exactly is right thing and what exactly people should do to their parents. You think respect to parents is absolutely necessary. This type thinking is nothing but conformity to social values which always run as superficial wave on the vast ocean called as life.

If i have no respect to my parents, certainly you will think i am total failure and my education is completely useless. You see things very simplistic way, thinks american are vastily different then Nepali. Your whole thinking starts from conformity and ends to conformity of some kind social values and most likely you may be very proud of it. You are too afraid to see what exactly mind is doing. It is what most organized religions are doing from eternity so is the social culture and traditions.