Well, "kalebhut" I admire u because at least u understand how our society is structured! Our country is sooo religious and men dominated that they all think the same way. Things have changed since our grandmother's time right? We can't just sit and look at these silently man!! Most nepali men are brought up that way but that doesn't mean they can treat women like dogs! Actually women are the ones who brought all these men to the world!! "GOLI MARO" to our superstitious traditions..... that's just an excuse to dominate even more! Men who are abroad have to learn a thing or two u know! How can u tell me to keep quite when women are being abused and killed???? U will realize the pain only when it will happen to your own sister dear! And for your information I am happily married and don't have to be traditional dominated wife! That's the sad thing that u suggest me not to whine about this in sajha........why every men here has the same "GORU" dimag?? no u are wrong...there are some who wants to do something good man! Think your brain is frozen in 1910 eras ....it's 2004 remember?