Your title " Call me insensitive". hmm did somebody told you that "you are insensitive" while discussing it with your friends or you just realized it (that am I being insensitive because I don't feel for them or something like that) by yourself ? And one more thing you hate "alcohol". Don't you? Why I don't know, but you do hate alcohol. Correct me if I am wrong here.

Regarding going to "bhattis"... Its unfortunate that few people go for alcohol just to run away from their problems, which is always there until they solve it when they are sober. next day they get up and do the same thing again and again.. Few people are alcoholic which is a disorder, I don't call them "jadhya", those people have that this disorder which make them consume alcohol everyday.

Be humble to everyone my friend...

Be gentle to earth
Be gentle to others
Be gentle to yourself.