Sorry, but I don’t give money to beggars. Its not a question of 5-10 rupees that will make me richer, its just my way.
My mum always reminds me how compassionate and emphatic I was during my young age. I used to ask her for “ek suka” (oh well
its 25 paisa coin and I am sure kids these days don’t even know about it) and
give it to a beggar on the street. Things have indeed changed for me.
I often walk from Ratna Park to Sundhara. Say, it is
to save that extra buck I might have to pay to the taxi, if I take that full
circle of one way Tudikhel. In the mornings, till 11 its fine to walk on that
stretch. After that it becomes chaotic. The Kathmandu Muncipality doesn’t allow
the street vendors to keep their stalls before 6pm and during the day time it
is like cat and mouse chase between them. There is another lot of people you
find on the footpath during this the day time. Even the Muncipality doesn’t bother
them.
I don’t want to call them beggars. The word itself
is so derogating . But I cannot think of any other word to describe them. All
these people do, is sit there and ask for money. I will start from one corner of
the street, right outside the post office. There is this mid aged lady with a
flex printing of a patient from hospital and a big speaker. “…. Waha ko dubai
mrigaula nachalne raw aha 6 mahina dekhi hospital ma bhayeko le waha ko aarthik
awastha ramro nabhayeko karan le……tapai ko sahyog ko apekshya garda
chau…dhanyabaad”. I don’t remember the exact words but a little girl’s voice
goes on and on from the recorder.
Second person I encounter is, this another lady,
maybe in her 20s. Perfectly healthy, very well built, lies on a piece of Afgan
right outside the Kathmandu Mall. The only problem she has is one of her feet
is amputated. She sleeps the whole day right there, and passersby gave her 5-10
rupees each.
Third one of the lot is right outside the NAC
building (previously known as RNAC). Funny that the same recording of the
little girl goes on loop, just the picture on the flex is different and the
name is different in the record. Before I forget to mention, there are in
between the foreigner beggars with babies who will make you guilty conscious showing
you the baby and saying the baby is hungry, she needs to buy milk. By evening
you will see these women around the bhattis in Basantapur. Oh Please! Trust me,
the food in those places are a lot more expensive than the booze. All these ladies are
there to drink.
I once read in the papers that even the babies are
not their own and are hired. The babies are drugged so that they sleep all the
time and I started to notice that really! these kids are always sleeping.
Something to ponder isn’t it?
I have too many such instances to share. Once I
helped this old woman who used to live around my house, and later I came to
know that the money I used to give her, she spent it in the bhatti nearby. So I
lost it, all my empathy, sensitivity, all of it. It is not that I don't help but I see the need of it very closely. I think they
should work and have a living. Call me insensitive but just being rational
here.